I’m in my thirties now and I am also a single mother. Dating is not the walk in the park it used to be. There are many details I need to consider before I even have coffee with the single guy.
I have to be able to find the time to date. Right now I am holding down a full time job, being a soccer mom and keeping house. Somewhere in there has to be some Me Time too, that’s not the same thing as Dating Time.
My dates will have to be planned. Gone are the days of spontaneous dating. I have a child I have to take care of and she will always come first. If my dates fall on a weekend that she’s not with her father, then I have to arrange for a babysitter. This takes planning.
While I am keeping an open mind about the different kinds of fellas out there, I am not interested in dating creeps. I’m single and dating, but I am not desperate.
I’m not looking for the same things now that I looked for in high school either. I’m in the process of ending my marriage, so I can also tell you that I am not looking for any kind of serious relationship. Right now, I just want to have fun.
Where are all of the fun guys these days?
I’m am going to take you along with me on my quest to Date and Have Fun. So stay tuned. We have some plans to make before we start dating.
The first thing I’m going to do is sign up for a dating website. There are so many of them out there now that it’s hard to make a good choice.I’ll be busy doing research until my next post. If you’re using dating websites to plan your next adventure, please help a girl out and let me know your opinions.
Signing off for now! I am yours, and I am Single Not Desperate!
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