by Single Not Desperate
This is an update on one of the past dates that I’ve written about. Do you remember The Chase is Thrilling blog post I did not long ago? It was all about the guy that became clingy and swore his undying love to me and became stalkarazzi in my neighborhood.
Well, he’s engaged to be married now.
I know! That was sure fast on his part wasn’t it? I was kind of shocked!
What kind of person does this? How do some people fall in and out of love so quickly? Is it even possible?
It takes a certain personality type to fall in love like a rock falling into a ravine. What you should always be aware of is that this person isn’t actually falling in love with you. They are falling in love with being in love. It really has nothing at all to do with you.
When someone tells you they love you on Date#3, Beware! The insecurities are boundless in this individual and they are as prone to puppy love as a teenager. Most likely their own level of maturity is stunted for some reason. They have no idea that what they’re doing is inappropriate for their age. It seems like they just can’t help themselves. The needy level is high and no human being will ever fill the void they have.
They don’t take break-ups well either 🙂
My best advice is to let them find themselves some place else. Unless you’re a glutton for punishment, this one needs to be thrown back.
Fall in Like first. Get to know the person first. Allow love to blossom like a rose rather than shoot up like a weed.
- Falling in Love with your Online Date (datingonline.net)
- Your Next Victim… (mysterycoach.wordpress.com)
- Bucket Lists… (mysterycoach.wordpress.com)
- I love you…in all your naked gorgeousness… (in fact: I love you the most naked…) (confessionsofadizzyblonde.wordpress.com)
- Can’t Step in Love (Part 1 of 2) (themastermindproject.com)