by Madeline Laughs
I can’t say that I’m done being gullible because I will always want to believe and see the best in all people. Being gullible doesn’t mean you’re stupid. It means that some people are just cruel liars.
Gullible means being easily taken in or tricked.
In order for gullibility to be a liability you have to surround yourself with liars and tricksters. I’ve done that. I didn’t know it at the time, but I plopped myself right down in the middle of some of the most skilled and accomplished liars around. It wasn’t until I started asking questions that the shine of having a brand new plaything to bat around in the group lost it’s shine.
I might be gullible, but I’m also extremely curious and curiosity might kill the cat, but I’d rather be dead than forced to call these jackals “friend”.
It’s okay to be gullible. It’s okay to occasionally get taken in and to blindly believe what someone tells you about themselves. Without gullibility we would all be tired, worn out cynics who think everything is a conspiracy theory.
Why shouldn’t we believe what someone tells us about themselves? When did it become okay to lie about that?
The truth is that you should always have the right to believe what someone tells you about themselves. Always being doubtful and second guessing someone’s truth is not a good way of life for anyone to have. It is never okay to misrepresent yourself to people you want to call “friend”. When you start doing that, you don’t deserve to have any friends.
So here’s the deal…
I’m okay with being gullible as long as the person telling me the lies is okay with me publicly calling them out on it and embarrassing the living shit out of them once I find out they lied.
I think that’s fair, don’t you?