Paula describes some folks I know with uncanny skill. I can not stress this enough…cut off all contact when you realize the person you are dealing with is a sociopath.
Sociopaths repeatedly and effortlessly find loving and caring people.
Why and how do they do it?
First, Sociopaths need good people to camouflage their shittiness from the world. The more loving, giving, religious, charitable and/or respected their significant other, the more likely the sociopath will succeed in gaining his own reputation for being the same type of good person his significant other spent years establishing.
(Remember, sociopaths are the biggest and most successful cheaters on the planet! They can do it remorselessly and believe they deserve it and earned it honorably.)
Plus, the more people the sociopath’s significant other has surrounding her, the more protected the sociopath feels.
The delusional sociopath automatically considers his significant other’s friends his friends and will use them to cowardly hide behind while getting away with his insidious abuses.
(Think of churches, clubs, community service groups and even yoga studios and gyms where people come…
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