I have had people tell me that I am the one common denominator in the problems I have had with certain folks and my response to them is, “You’re absolutely right!” You see, I am only talking about the state of my relationship and my decision to walk away from a toxic person. I’m not talking about anyone else…just about me. If that makes me the common denominator then cheers for pointing out the obvious.
Just because someone is toxic for me, doesn’t mean they’re toxic for everyone, but odds are that they are toxic so be aware. Just because I don’t talk about other people walking away from someone I think is toxic, doesn’t mean there aren’t dozens of other people out there that walked away for the same reasons I did.
I just happen to be the one person talking about it so others won’t feel all alone when they end up on the toxic side of the relationship without a clue how they got there, or how to escape.