Category Archives: Facebook Advice

there’s so much to learn about Facebook

Are you wondering about privacy and social media?

There can be no expectation that you will achieve privacy on Facebook. There will always be some new development that exposes parts of your recorded life there. That’s just the way online presences work. Facebook will always be updating, rearranging … Continue reading

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Facebook, Safebook, Happybook

I have been chastised for deleting people from my Friends list. I was told some folks found it offensive. For a while I felt bad about that, but it never stopped me from hitting the Delete button. Your Facebook account … Continue reading

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keep Friends Close, all others discard

This whole “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer” is a crock of poo that someone is trying to sell you. Many people have been credited with coining this atrocity like the character Don Corleone from The Godfather or … Continue reading

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did you just Lie to me?

I used to take people at face value. That was before I started studying them for a living. I have realized over the years that people are complex, multi-dimensional individuals and none of them can be taken at face value. … Continue reading

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Are you seeking Validation on Facebook?

Note: I should add that I am not friends with many of the people I mention below, on Facebook or otherwise. I am still friends with a few, and I think those will be easy to spot. Happy reading! I … Continue reading

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Hey! I made you a mixed tape *wink*

I’ve noticed lately that one of the new technological wooing techniques is emailing the object of your affection a song. Whether you’ve downloaded the song illegally or not, doesn’t seem to be the point. Sometimes it’s a video from Youtube, … Continue reading

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New Laws make cyberbullies face felony charges…finally!

Cyberbullying is something I am very familiar with. I was a victim of online bullying. After posting demeaning online taunts about me on four different social media websites, she encouraged mutual friends to delete me on Facebook. She persisted in … Continue reading

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