Category Archives: Facebook Advice

there’s so much to learn about Facebook

did you just Lie to me?

I used to take people at face value. That was before I started studying them for a living. I have realized over the years that people are complex, multi-dimensional individuals and none of them can be taken at face value. … Continue reading

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Are you seeking Validation on Facebook?

Note: I should add that I am not friends with many of the people I mention below, on Facebook or otherwise. I am still friends with a few, and I think those will be easy to spot. Happy reading! I … Continue reading

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Hey! I made you a mixed tape *wink*

I’ve noticed lately that one of the new technological wooing techniques is emailing the object of your affection a song. Whether you’ve downloaded the song illegally or not, doesn’t seem to be the point. Sometimes it’s a video from Youtube, … Continue reading

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New Laws make cyberbullies face felony charges…finally!

Cyberbullying is something I am very familiar with. I was a victim of online bullying. After posting demeaning online taunts about me on four different social media websites, she encouraged mutual friends to delete me on Facebook. She persisted in … Continue reading

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Discovering what’s good

Facebook Discovery #275 When someone tells you they really have nothing to do with someone, but they pay a lot of attention to what that person says on Facebook. Here’s a clue…they aren’t being totally honest with you.  

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Facebook naivete

After all these years of preaching to others about the dangers of Facebook and to be aware of who you allow a window into your world, I am surprised by my own inability to accept the fact that not everyone … Continue reading

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helpful Facebook groups to AVOID

I had the most bizarre experience with Facebook groups recently. I remember discovering groups on Facebook, and even making a few of my own. My groups were mostly about cooking or music and stuff I loved to do, but there … Continue reading

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