Category Archives: All kinds of Advice

Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading

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CrAzY mAkInG pEoPlE

If you were ever caught up in the middle of someone in the process of executing crazy making behavior on you, it’s one of the most befuddling situations you will ever be subjected to. Crazy making behavior is just what … Continue reading

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Is that a reliable source?

I don’t take anyone’s Word for it anymore. And why should I? Why should you? In an uneven, out of balance world filled to the brim with liars and false prophets, people out to make a buck while climbing the … Continue reading

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when you see the Narcissist’s Mask slip *gasp!*

The first time I saw the narcissist’s mask slip I second guessed myself that it was probably an optical illusion. I ended up cheating myself out of that AHA-Moment of knowing that I have finally mastered the art of seeing … Continue reading

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Keeping Score and losing the game

Do you have a friend that keeps score? Or are you someone that keeps score? Keeping score goes something like this… “Well, I paid our way to the movies last time, so she owes me lunch.” “He didn’t buy me … Continue reading

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to Redneck, or not too Redneck

I have a friend in California that thinks that because I live in North Carolina, I’m a chain smoking, fried food eating, racist rebel flag flying Redneck. She starts sentences with “People in the South…” and there’s usually some belittling … Continue reading

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Talking and Driving is bad

I sat at the stop light the other day and counted the number of people talking on their cell phones. Almost everyone I could see, except one gentleman, had their arms glued to their ears yakking away. Then I noticed he … Continue reading

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