Category Archives: All kinds of Advice

Talking and Driving is bad

I sat at the stop light the other day and counted the number of people talking on their cell phones. Almost everyone I could see, except one gentleman, had their arms glued to their ears yakking away. Then I noticed he … Continue reading

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Telling Your Side versus a Narcissistic Smear Campaign

There is a big difference between telling your side of the story and a Narcissistic Smear Campaign. Telling your side of the story simply states facts. There is no need to share jabs or insults and it looks like this: … Continue reading

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Living within Your Credit Limit

The title almost sounds like it’s advisable to live within your credit limit, but it’s not. In fact, living within your credit limit is one of the worst ways you can live. Eventually, it catches up with you and can … Continue reading

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social Vampires

Ah yes, the Social Vampire is a special breed that only comes out in your darkest moment to drain the blood from your soul and turn you into a paranoid creature afraid of the sunlight, with no reflection of your … Continue reading

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the Secrets we Keep

When I first started recovering from years of mental and verbal abuse, I loathed talking about it. Who wants to admit they were stupid enough to fall victim to an abuser? It’s humiliating to endure the voice in your own … Continue reading

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Have you ever experienced Instant Karma?

We all know about Karma. Karma is that faith in knowing that what goes around eventually comes back around in some way to show you the error of your ways if they’re bad, or to give back something good if … Continue reading

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What’s up with the TIP jars everywhere?!

Everyone knows, well everyone but the folks that live in Italy, that you are supposed to tip your server in a restaurant. The term Tips means “to insure proper service” and in the United States the tip makes up the … Continue reading

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7 ways to WALK AWAY from Narcissistic Abuse

I would say it’s interesting watching a narcissist do battle with the person they are intent on abusing, if it wasn’t such a waste of time and energy. That’s the only way you can look at the person so hellbent … Continue reading

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Discovering Twelve 28 Kitchen

Located in a quaint shopping center in Penn Valley, CA is a hidden gem of a restaurant. From the eclectic re-purposed decor to the wildflower bouquets, every single item in this establishment has been met with absolute love for what … Continue reading

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Riding the rails! From Virginia to California on Amtrak

A dream of mine has been to ride the train from the East coast to the West coast and back again. I recently got to fulfill that Bucket List wish and traveled from Norfolk, VA to Sacramento, CA and returned … Continue reading

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