Category Archives: Personal Boundaries Primer

Learn how to protect yourself

Dealing with bitter people

Dealing with bitter people can be exhausting, if you let it be. Bitter people resent your good fortune, your life and just about everything about you, and they let you know it. Yes, they let you know it, usually in … Continue reading

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do you know a Megalomaniac too?

What is Megalomania? ~from Wikipedia “Megalomania is a psycho-pathological condition characterized by delusional fantasies of wealth, power, or omnipotence. Megalomania is characterized by an inflated sense of self-esteem and overestimation by persons of their powers and beliefs.” Whichever way this … Continue reading

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your enemy is their new friend

Note: This happened to me a very long time ago, so there is no need to offer me comforting words, even though they still feel good. I am so much stronger and evolved today than I was when this was … Continue reading

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Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. For example, posting … Continue reading

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I know you’re still watching me

Yes, I know you’re still out there watching me and reading every word I write. Even though you’ve probably learned by now that using proxy servers shows up and that privacy is a matter of technical skill. But even that … Continue reading

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The rabbit hole of control

Have you ever heard that expression? “Throwing it against the wall, seeing if it sticks”. Loosely translated this means that you continue to change your methods with someone until you get the reaction you most desire. I admit that I … Continue reading

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Persist to Resist and Exist – How to be the Leader of your own Life

Resistance is futile. In some cases, resistance is not futile. It just depends on whether or not you are truly making the effort to resist. For instance, I dated this guy on two occasions, named John. After each date to the … Continue reading

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