Tag Archives: abusive people

CrAzY mAkInG pEoPlE

If you were ever caught up in the middle of someone in the process of executing crazy making behavior on you, it’s one of the most befuddling situations you will ever be subjected to. Crazy making behavior is just what … Continue reading

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when you see the Narcissist’s Mask slip *gasp!*

The first time I saw the narcissist’s mask slip I second guessed myself that it was probably an optical illusion. I ended up cheating myself out of that AHA-Moment of knowing that I have finally mastered the art of seeing … Continue reading

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Telling Your Side versus a Narcissistic Smear Campaign

There is a big difference between telling your side of the story and a Narcissistic Smear Campaign. Telling your side of the story simply states facts. There is no need to share jabs or insults and it looks like this: … Continue reading

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social Vampires

Ah yes, the Social Vampire is a special breed that only comes out in your darkest moment to drain the blood from your soul and turn you into a paranoid creature afraid of the sunlight, with no reflection of your … Continue reading

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the Secrets we Keep

When I first started recovering from years of mental and verbal abuse, I loathed talking about it. Who wants to admit they were stupid enough to fall victim to an abuser? It’s humiliating to endure the voice in your own … Continue reading

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you are not alone

Sometimes I blog about the major jerks in everyone’s life, even my own. I’m not particularly interested in the jerk’s opinions about what I write, or about how I feel. I’m intelligent enough to realize that if I wanted them to know what … Continue reading

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Dreaming of Cannibals

I had the weirdest dream last night. My husband and I were escaping from flood waters. We were crossing a dry lake bed in the nick of time because we could see the gushing river coming our way. On the … Continue reading

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