Tag Archives: Behavior

Working through your depression; good words to follow

Me: I tried to call you a couple of times yesterday but you never answered. Them: I was so sad and depressed yesterday. I just didn’t want to see or talk to anyone. Me: Would talking to me make you … Continue reading

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Tell your side and then forget them

Narcissism is a subject I have written literally thousands of words about. I have written about what it is, how it feels to be abused by them and how to recover and live your best life. I have even published … Continue reading

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Being more selective with your Time

I told one of my friends the other day that living in a small town was starting to make me feel mean. It’s a little disappointing to find out the darling of the local Chamber of Commerce is also the … Continue reading

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I am who I am no matter who you are

I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading

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Maslov’s Pyramid is Rubbish

Many years ago, before I was married, one of my husband’s friends used Maslov’s hierarchy of needs to convince him that it was okay to cheat on his then-girlfriend, which was me. I thought this was certainly a unique argument, … Continue reading

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Are you seeking Validation on Facebook?

Note: I should add that I am not friends with many of the people I mention below, on Facebook or otherwise. I am still friends with a few, and I think those will be easy to spot. Happy reading! I … Continue reading

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Dear New Friend,

  Dear New Friend, Well, we are a year or more into our fledgling new friendship and I have laughed uproariously, smiled until my face cracked, hung out and did nothing, but hang out, dined, swam, gardened, shopped and chatted … Continue reading

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