Tag Archives: bullies

Small towns gossip, but shhhh! we don’t Talk about that

I was reading an article recently that was written by a woman that grew up in this small town, moved away for school and then moved back. She was waxing poetic about the people in the community and how they … Continue reading

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growing up LOUD and learning from the past

  I have this cousin. I speak about her in the present tense, though I am quite certain that if you mentioned my name to her today she would respond with a “Who?” It wouldn’t be because she doesn’t know … Continue reading

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Not today :) How to get bullies to leave you alone

A while back I was experiencing some anxiety about being injected into a situation that made me very uncomfortable. While discussing what I should do about it with a good friend, she told me the best advice I ever received. … Continue reading

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Reality television rewired my brain

At the beginning of the year I wanted to do some work rewriting and creating new neural pathways in my brain. To do this you simply change your habits and do things differently. This keeps the brain from becoming stagnant … Continue reading

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Vanderpump Rules hits a nerve

There are a few reality shows on television these days that capture my attention. One of the most intriguing is Vanderpump Rules. This show has captivated me, but not in the ways you’d imagine. I’m not watching it for the fashion … Continue reading

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for the cyber bullies among us

If you have ever been bullied online, or if you have ever bullied someone online, this is for you. Monsters are real.

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the Happy Sea :)

    I think “rude and harsh” behavior really means “oh crap! She’s figured me out and knows what a butthole I really am! I must deflect! I must deflect!” I’ve decided to take statements that are obviously insulting, in … Continue reading

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