Tag Archives: bully

you are not alone

Sometimes I blog about the major jerks in everyone’s life, even my own. I’m not particularly interested in the jerk’s opinions about what I write, or about how I feel. I’m intelligent enough to realize that if I wanted them to know what … Continue reading

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BIGGER is better

Someone said to me once “You need to be the bigger person here and just forgive and forget!”. If this had happened a few years ago, they might have elicited a little bit of guilt out of me. I might have … Continue reading

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Bullies love the holidays

How many of us out here have always dreaded the holidays simply because we have family members that are overbearing and aggressive bullies? Believe me when I tell you that you are not alone. The worst part of it all … Continue reading

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Nurturing a TOXIC relationship?

I have had a few occasions over the years when I was in the middle of doing or saying something I felt was heartfelt and good to someone I cared about, only to have them jump the gun and start … Continue reading

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stop embracing the BULLY

I have written many posts about bullies and about fighting back against them and their reign of terror and hatred. Today I’m going to tell you something that was shared with me from a very wise friend. You can fight … Continue reading

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a Legacy of Hate

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about spiteful people and the legacy they leave in their passing. I wonder sometimes if this is what they meant to accomplish, or if they just thought there would always be enough time to … Continue reading

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calling someone FAT…

Calling someone FAT won’t make you skinny, but it will make you small and petty and very, very ugly. But the biggest thing that calling someone FAT will make you is a BULLY.

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