Tag Archives: Bullying

Never been a Cliquer

I just re-read the title of this post and had to grin. When I first had this idea it was back in March of 2015. I visited my blog and made a new post, then saved it as a draft … Continue reading

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Freaks

I was shopping for cat food at the local Walmart with one of my friends when a woman pushed her shopping cart past us and under her breath hissed “Freaks!” to us. I might understand this better if either of us … Continue reading

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when your friends are friendly with jerks

  Everybody has that one friend, or if you’re unlucky enough, maybe you have a few friends, and they are all friendly with one of the biggest jerks you know. I have a few friends like this. I sometimes feel like … Continue reading

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BIGGER is better

Someone said to me once “You need to be the bigger person here and just forgive and forget!”. If this had happened a few years ago, they might have elicited a little bit of guilt out of me. I might have … Continue reading

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how I found the Pattern

When I started creating personal boundaries for myself, I had no idea what I was doing and it made me uncomfortable to think I would ever enforce them. But I stuck with it. Even when it made me grit my … Continue reading

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King Midas, the sociopath (I know one! *shudders*)

I have a few friends that are my experts when it comes to describing the traits of narcissists and sociopaths. In fact, much of what I share with you here, I learned from reading and communicating with them. I do not … Continue reading

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Bullies love the holidays

How many of us out here have always dreaded the holidays simply because we have family members that are overbearing and aggressive bullies? Believe me when I tell you that you are not alone. The worst part of it all … Continue reading

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