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Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading

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people talk

I can not tell you the number of times over the years that I have been out with a group of people having a great time, laughing and really feeling good about the friends I’m hanging out with, only to … Continue reading

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What kind of friend are You?

Recently during a fund raising campaign I found out some interesting things about people I’m friends with, and also about myself. It is one of the most eye opening experiences of my life, so far, and the personal observations I … Continue reading

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the Happy Sea :)

    I think “rude and harsh” behavior really means “oh crap! She’s figured me out and knows what a butthole I really am! I must deflect! I must deflect!” I’ve decided to take statements that are obviously insulting, in … Continue reading

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