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Tag Archives: Friendship
Eeny, meanie, miney…you’re a sociopath!
For months I operated on the fear of getting sucked back in by liars and even worse…sociopaths. It got so bad that the least little deviation someone took from acting like, what I considered, normal, I would immediately label them … Continue reading
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Tagged abusive people, Antisocial personality disorder, Behavior, Crazy Train, fighting back, Friendship, gaslighting, Health, how to survive, Katy Shultz, Life After the Narcissist, Madeline, Madeline Laughs, Madeline Scribes, Narcissistic Smear Campaign, Personal boundaries, Psychopathy, sociopath, telling your side, telling your truth
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social Vampires
Ah yes, the Social Vampire is a special breed that only comes out in your darkest moment to drain the blood from your soul and turn you into a paranoid creature afraid of the sunlight, with no reflection of your … Continue reading
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Tagged abusive people, betrayal, fighting back, Friendship, gaslighting, how to survive, isolation, Jealousy, Katy Shultz, Life After the Narcissist, Madeline Laughs, Madeline Scribes, Narcissistic Smear Campaign, people, Personal boundaries, social vampire, telling your side, telling your truth, triangulation, Vampire
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I am who I am no matter who you are
I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading
when Married People fight
Why are you so upset? I’m upset because I just spent the last three hours trying to say I’m sorry for spending time with her husband this weekend. I invited him over to watch a game on television with me … Continue reading
Traveling with Coffee
I’m waiting to board my early morning flight out of Quito, Ecuador and a young security officer approaches me, “Are you Kay-tee Shuuulz?” I nod and he indicates that I should come with him. Walking through hallways and down stairs … Continue reading
Posted in All kinds of Advice
Tagged coffee, Ecuador, Friendship, Inca, Panama, Quito, Travel and Tourism
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What can Bad People teach us?
Along with some of the most fabulous women in the world, I also seem to attract a bit of the crazy. To someone that lives for the soft aesthetic of life, this is a blemish I can not abide. What can … Continue reading
Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer
Tagged boundaries, Charlie Brown, Daily Post, friends, Friendship, lessons to learn, people, sanity, Texas, Women
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Are you seeking Validation on Facebook?
Note: I should add that I am not friends with many of the people I mention below, on Facebook or otherwise. I am still friends with a few, and I think those will be easy to spot. Happy reading! I … Continue reading
