Tag Archives: Friendship

Eeny, meanie, miney…you’re a sociopath!

Posted on October 25, 2018 by

For months I operated on the fear of getting sucked back in by liars and even worse…sociopaths. It got so bad that the least little deviation someone took from acting like, what I considered, normal, I would immediately label them … Continue reading →

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Stop Trying

Posted on October 15, 2018 by

When you become the target of a Narcissistic Smear Campaign, it can be confusing on many levels. There are so many questions you have and the narcissist is counting on you not being able to get any answers. They enjoy … Continue reading →

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social Vampires

Posted on September 23, 2018 by

Ah yes, the Social Vampire is a special breed that only comes out in your darkest moment to drain the blood from your soul and turn you into a paranoid creature afraid of the sunlight, with no reflection of your … Continue reading →

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I am who I am no matter who you are

Posted on May 22, 2018 by

I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading →

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when Married People fight

Posted on March 21, 2017 by

Why are you so upset? I’m upset because I just spent the last three hours trying to say I’m sorry for spending time with her husband this weekend. I invited him over to watch a game on television with me … Continue reading →

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Traveling with Coffee

Posted on January 31, 2017 by

I’m waiting to board my early morning flight out of Quito, Ecuador and a young security officer approaches me, “Are you Kay-tee Shuuulz?” I nod and he indicates that I should come with him. Walking through hallways and down stairs … Continue reading →

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What can Bad People teach us?

Posted on January 18, 2017 by

Along with some of the most fabulous women in the world, I also seem to attract a bit of the crazy. To someone that lives for the soft aesthetic of life, this is a blemish I can not abide. What can … Continue reading →

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did you just Lie to me?

Posted on January 4, 2017 by

I used to take people at face value. That was before I started studying them for a living. I have realized over the years that people are complex, multi-dimensional individuals and none of them can be taken at face value. … Continue reading →

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Are you seeking Validation on Facebook?

Posted on January 2, 2017 by

Note: I should add that I am not friends with many of the people I mention below, on Facebook or otherwise. I am still friends with a few, and I think those will be easy to spot. Happy reading! I … Continue reading →

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Discovering what’s good

Posted on December 23, 2016 by

Facebook Discovery #275 When someone tells you they really have nothing to do with someone, but they pay a lot of attention to what that person says on Facebook. Here’s a clue…they aren’t being totally honest with you.  

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