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a Ticket to ride The Crazy Train

I mention the Crazy Train often in some of my posts. I want to talk for a moment about exactly what the Crazy Train is. The Crazy Train is a transparent, narcissistic, lying piece of turd sociopath that is charming … Continue reading

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Making a clean getaway

That moment when you realize you’re in the presence of a malignant personality, and you make the decision to bow out quietly and make a clean getaway, is probably one of the most naive moments you’ll ever have. So you … Continue reading

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Eeny, meanie, miney…you’re a sociopath!

For months I operated on the fear of getting sucked back in by liars and even worse…sociopaths. It got so bad that the least little deviation someone took from acting like, what I considered, normal, I would immediately label them … Continue reading

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is there a difference between No Contact and a Narcissistic Silent Treatment?

No Contact is very good advice given to victims of a malignant narcissist or a sociopath. It simply means no contact, of any kind, with the person that has been abusing you. It is a way to eliminate the abuser’s … Continue reading

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Stop Trying

When you become the target of a Narcissistic Smear Campaign, it can be confusing on many levels. There are so many questions you have and the narcissist is counting on you not being able to get any answers. They enjoy … Continue reading

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“how to win against a narcissistic smear campaign”

One of the Search Terms for my blog was this: “how to win against a narcissistic smear campaign” Sometimes I wish I could privately respond to these people searching for answers, but alas, I cannot. So I will write this … Continue reading

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Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading

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