Tag Archives: Katy Shultz

is there a difference between No Contact and a Narcissistic Silent Treatment?

No Contact is very good advice given to victims of a malignant narcissist or a sociopath. It simply means no contact, of any kind, with the person that has been abusing you. It is a way to eliminate the abuser’s … Continue reading

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Stop Trying

When you become the target of a Narcissistic Smear Campaign, it can be confusing on many levels. There are so many questions you have and the narcissist is counting on you not being able to get any answers. They enjoy … Continue reading

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“how to win against a narcissistic smear campaign”

One of the Search Terms for my blog was this: “how to win against a narcissistic smear campaign” Sometimes I wish I could privately respond to these people searching for answers, but alas, I cannot. So I will write this … Continue reading

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Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading

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CrAzY mAkInG pEoPlE

If you were ever caught up in the middle of someone in the process of executing crazy making behavior on you, it’s one of the most befuddling situations you will ever be subjected to. Crazy making behavior is just what … Continue reading

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when you see the Narcissist’s Mask slip *gasp!*

The first time I saw the narcissist’s mask slip I second guessed myself that it was probably an optical illusion. I ended up cheating myself out of that AHA-Moment of knowing that I have finally mastered the art of seeing … Continue reading

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Telling Your Side versus a Narcissistic Smear Campaign

There is a big difference between telling your side of the story and a Narcissistic Smear Campaign. Telling your side of the story simply states facts. There is no need to share jabs or insults and it looks like this: … Continue reading

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