Tag Archives: malignant narcissist

is there a difference between No Contact and a Narcissistic Silent Treatment?

Posted on October 20, 2018 by

No Contact is very good advice given to victims of a malignant narcissist or a sociopath. It simply means no contact, of any kind, with the person that has been abusing you. It is a way to eliminate the abuser’s … Continue reading →

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“how to win against a narcissistic smear campaign”

Posted on October 10, 2018 by

One of the Search Terms for my blog was this: “how to win against a narcissistic smear campaign” Sometimes I wish I could privately respond to these people searching for answers, but alas, I cannot. So I will write this … Continue reading →

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Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

Posted on October 5, 2018 by

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading →

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I don’t Write for them, I write for You

Posted on December 22, 2016 by

I was chatting with a recent reader of my blog when she remarked that she sure hoped when those disordered people read my blog, they figured out how much they were hurting people and tried to get help for themselves. … Continue reading →

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helpful Facebook groups to AVOID

Posted on December 1, 2016 by

I had the most bizarre experience with Facebook groups recently. I remember discovering groups on Facebook, and even making a few of my own. My groups were mostly about cooking or music and stuff I loved to do, but there … Continue reading →

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just one little old rock

Posted on August 25, 2016 by

For years I have shared advice to help you find your voice and use it. I have encouraged you to share your stories of abuse, so that others can learn from your experiences and all of us can begin to … Continue reading →

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dying to win Death’s Jackpot

Posted on March 3, 2016 by

  I think one of the sleaziest declarations a person can make to a loved one is “I’m cutting you out of my Will!” or “I’m going to disinherit you!” or “When I die you’ll get NOTHING!” or the latest in a long line … Continue reading →

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Never allow someone to isolate you

Posted on August 22, 2015 by

When you start to realize you’ve been isolated, often it’s too late to reverse the damages done. Sometimes you will have no idea just how isolated you are until situations arise that require you to be in the presence of the perfect storm. What … Continue reading →

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being grateful, showing kindness, being a Giver, it’s all good

Posted on August 8, 2014 by

My friend Angie and I were having a discussion about this subject yesterday. Like me, Angie gets annoyed with people that constantly take and take and take, and never give anything back, or even offer to give something back. Believe … Continue reading →

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Facebook taught me…

Posted on July 14, 2014 by
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