Tag Archives: malignant narcissist

Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. For example, posting … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 34 Comments

I don’t Write for them, I write for You

I was chatting with a recent reader of my blog when she remarked that she sure hoped when those disordered people read my blog, they figured out how much they were hurting people and tried to get help for themselves. … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 8 Comments

helpful Facebook groups to AVOID

I had the most bizarre experience with Facebook groups recently. I remember discovering groups on Facebook, and even making a few of my own. My groups were mostly about cooking or music and stuff I loved to do, but there … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Facebook Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

am I like that too?

I remember telling one of my friends that in writing about personality disorders and bad behaviors, I tended to turn the spotlight on myself and ask those same questions. Am I like that too? Do I do those same things … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

just one little old rock

For years I have shared advice to help you find your voice and use it. I have encouraged you to share your stories of abuse, so that others can learn from your experiences and all of us can begin to … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

they get a Taste for it

I used to take the abuse in stride. Then I started to wonder if I had a tattoo on my forehead that only they could see. The habitual abusers. I was growing weary of the constant apology, only to suffer … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , | 3 Comments

dying to win Death’s Jackpot

  I think one of the sleaziest declarations a person can make to a loved one is “I’m cutting you out of my Will!” or “I’m going to disinherit you!” or “When I die you’ll get NOTHING!” or the latest in a long line … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments