Tag Archives: Narcissism

do you know a Megalomaniac too?

What is Megalomania? ~from Wikipedia “Megalomania is a psycho-pathological condition characterized by delusional fantasies of wealth, power, or omnipotence. Megalomania is characterized by an inflated sense of self-esteem and overestimation by persons of their powers and beliefs.” Whichever way this … Continue reading

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Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading

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when you see the Narcissist’s Mask slip *gasp!*

The first time I saw it happen, I second guessed myself that it was probably an optical illusion. I ended up cheating myself out of that AHA! moment of knowing that I have finally mastered the art of seeing a … Continue reading

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am I like that too?

I remember telling one of my friends that in writing about personality disorders and bad behaviors, I tended to turn the spotlight on myself and ask those same questions. Am I like that too? Do I do those same things … Continue reading

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I am not that girl

There are days I wonder how that girl gets away with it. I watch as she sashays through life sharing tiny morsels of untruths and lies about this friend or that friend. She pretends she’s so unaffected. Feigns surprise with her … Continue reading

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Never been a Cliquer

I just re-read the title of this post and had to grin. When I first had this idea it was back in March of 2015. I visited my blog and made a new post, then saved it as a draft … Continue reading

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when your friends are friendly with jerks

  Everybody has that one friend, or if you’re unlucky enough, maybe you have a few friends, and they are all friendly with one of the biggest jerks you know. I have a few friends like this. I sometimes feel like … Continue reading

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