Tag Archives: Narcissist

Deflection behavior of the narcissist and How You Can Protect Yourself

  Deflection behavior is when the narcissist blames the victim for their own bad behavior and feels justified in bullying them. A malignant narcissist will even go as far as using the victim’s own self defense against them. Sounds insane, … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 36 Comments

7 ways to WALK AWAY from Narcissistic Abuse

I would say it’s interesting watching a narcissist do battle with the person they are intent on abusing, if it wasn’t such a waste of time and energy. That’s the only way you can look at the person so hellbent … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

I don’t Write for them, I write for You

I was chatting with a recent reader of my blog when she remarked that she sure hoped when those disordered people read my blog, they figured out how much they were hurting people and tried to get help for themselves. … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

helpful Facebook groups to AVOID

I had the most bizarre experience with Facebook groups recently. I remember discovering groups on Facebook, and even making a few of my own. My groups were mostly about cooking or music and stuff I loved to do, but there … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Facebook Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 10 Comments

Never allow someone to isolate you

When you start to realize you’ve been isolated, often it’s too late to reverse the damages done. Sometimes you will have no idea just how isolated you are until situations arise that require you to be in the presence of the perfect storm. What … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

are you searching for Information on narcissism?

  Everyday I look at the search terms people use to find this blog and everyday I see the word “narcissist”. Seeing this word is a double edged sword for me. On one hand I am happy that people are … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

girlfriends aren’t garbage

Disclaimer: the details in this story have been changed to protect the hurts. I have been witnessing the decline of a relationship that I was sure was rock solid, and I watched it all play out on Facebook. Neither one … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments