Tag Archives: narcissists

when you see the Narcissist’s Mask slip *gasp!*

The first time I saw the narcissist’s mask slip I second guessed myself that it was probably an optical illusion. I ended up cheating myself out of that AHA-Moment of knowing that I have finally mastered the art of seeing … Continue reading

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I know you’re still watching me

Yes, I know you’re still out there watching me and reading every word I write. Even though you’ve probably learned by now that using proxy servers shows up and that privacy is a matter of technical skill. But even that … Continue reading

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do they approve?

For many, many years I lived my life teetering on the edge of other people’s approval. Will they like that? Do you think it’s enough? Should I do more? Do they like me? Why don’t they like me? If I … Continue reading

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shame

When I was doing research for one of my posts about narcissism I came across an interesting article about where narcissism develops and some reasons why it happens. You see, people are not born to be narcissistic. Narcissism is a … Continue reading

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“wants everyone to just get along”

I was clicking through my Twitter followers the other night getting rid of the baggage when I came across the description for someone that had subjected me to a narcissistic rage and subsequent smear campaign. This was part of the … Continue reading

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Growing a community of Awareness

Why do these people offend you so much? This is a question I have heard often and I would like to clarify something…there is a difference between being offended and trying to understand your responsibility for the collapse of the … Continue reading

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Winning the Narcissist Slayer Award!!!

This was a pleasant surprise because although I have written several articles about my own experiences with narcissists, I never expected to be recognized for having finally recovered enough to be recognized as someone who was healing, rather than continuing … Continue reading

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