Tag Archives: Personal boundaries

How to change the subject with love

I was loudly complaining to a friend about some injustice I had just suffered because someone was being mean to me. “She has the nerve to say all this stuff behind my back, but she’s too much of a coward … Continue reading

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What do you believe?

What do you believe? This isn’t a question about spirituality. This is a question about your core beliefs about yourself and how you manage and construct your life as you age. What do you believe in order to add new … Continue reading

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Making Healthy Boundaries and losing Buttons

    I was chatting with a friend the other day and our conversation was about having our buttons pushed. She told me that it wasn’t as much about why they were pushed, but more about how they were pushed. … Continue reading

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I don’t Write for them, I write for You

I was chatting with a recent reader of my blog when she remarked that she sure hoped when those disordered people read my blog, they figured out how much they were hurting people and tried to get help for themselves. … Continue reading

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am I like that too?

I remember telling one of my friends that in writing about personality disorders and bad behaviors, I tended to turn the spotlight on myself and ask those same questions. Am I like that too? Do I do those same things … Continue reading

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I am not that girl

There are days I wonder how that girl gets away with it. I watch as she sashays through life sharing tiny morsels of untruths and lies about this friend or that friend. She pretends she’s so unaffected. Feigns surprise with her … Continue reading

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I have enough friends…

When I heard “I have enough friends…”  said out loud the other day it made me pucker up a little, like I had just bitten into a really sour pickle. This time it was said with a kind of cavalier, devil … Continue reading

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