Tag Archives: Personal boundaries

I am who I am no matter who you are

I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading

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Losing my Anonymity

REM lost their religion. William Shakespeare lost doubt. Edgar Allan Poe lost his mind. I’m over here wondering if I’ve lost my anonymity even though I’m not interested in figuring out where it went. I think it was the day … Continue reading

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I don’t Write for them, I write for You

I was chatting with a recent reader of my blog when she remarked that she sure hoped when those disordered people read my blog, they figured out how much they were hurting people and tried to get help for themselves. … Continue reading

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I am not that girl

There are days I wonder how that girl gets away with it. I watch as she sashays through life sharing tiny morsels of untruths and lies about this friend or that friend. She pretends she’s so unaffected. Feigns surprise with her … Continue reading

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I have enough friends…

When I heard “I have enough friends…”  said out loud the other day it made me pucker up a little, like I had just bitten into a really sour pickle. This time it was said with a kind of cavalier, devil … Continue reading

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just one little old rock

For years I have shared advice to help you find your voice and use it. I have encouraged you to share your stories of abuse, so that others can learn from your experiences and all of us can begin to … Continue reading

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When Honey don’t wanna Honey Do

All week he has worked on other projects, most of them have nothing to do with you. He is gone every day and most of the evening helping his new pals or getting stuff ready for an upcoming event. His … Continue reading

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