Tag Archives: Relationships

I am who I am no matter who you are

I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading

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Losing my Anonymity

REM lost their religion. William Shakespeare lost doubt. Edgar Allan Poe lost his mind. I’m over here wondering if I’ve lost my anonymity even though I’m not interested in figuring out where it went. I think it was the day … Continue reading

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is that a Worm in my apple? Or am I becoming a rotten person?

It has been the year of exits for me and some of my *cough*friendly*cough* connections. Being the bitchy one that calls a person out for behaving like a jerk and then walking away from them because I just don’t want … Continue reading

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The telephone Game

My friend and I were talking about how misunderstandings and untruths get spread around by folks that have way too much time on their hands. I had remembered having a conversation with someone who thought they were repeating something I … Continue reading

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LOVE multiplies

  I was having one of those AHA! conversations with one of my closest friends when she made an observation that cleared up something I had wondered about for a long time. The conversation was about people who love selfishly. … Continue reading

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I am not that girl

There are days I wonder how that girl gets away with it. I watch as she sashays through life sharing tiny morsels of untruths and lies about this friend or that friend. She pretends she’s so unaffected. Feigns surprise with her … Continue reading

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remembering why you Fell in Love

The blush of youth and love are two of the most intoxicating emotional states we can enter into. The eyes of lust and wanting cloud our best judgement at times and down the rabbit hole we fall. It is those times it … Continue reading

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