Tag Archives: Relationships

How to change the subject with love

I was loudly complaining to a friend about some injustice I had just suffered because someone was being mean to me. “She has the nerve to say all this stuff behind my back, but she’s too much of a coward … Continue reading

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is that a Worm in my apple? Or am I becoming a rotten person?

It has been the year of exits for me and some of my *cough*friendly*cough* connections. Being the bitchy one that calls a person out for behaving like a jerk and then walking away from them because I just don’t want … Continue reading

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The telephone Game

My friend and I were talking about how misunderstandings and untruths get spread around by folks that have way too much time on their hands. I had remembered having a conversation with someone who thought they were repeating something I … Continue reading

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am I like that too?

I remember telling one of my friends that in writing about personality disorders and bad behaviors, I tended to turn the spotlight on myself and ask those same questions. Am I like that too? Do I do those same things … Continue reading

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LOVE multiplies

  I was having one of those AHA! conversations with one of my closest friends when she made an observation that cleared up something I had wondered about for a long time. The conversation was about people who love selfishly. … Continue reading

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I am not that girl

There are days I wonder how that girl gets away with it. I watch as she sashays through life sharing tiny morsels of untruths and lies about this friend or that friend. She pretends she’s so unaffected. Feigns surprise with her … Continue reading

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remembering why you Fell in Love

The blush of youth and love are two of the most intoxicating emotional states we can enter into. The eyes of lust and wanting cloud our best judgement at times and down the rabbit hole we fall. It is those times it … Continue reading

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