Tag Archives: Relationships

We all have better things to talk about

  I cannot tell you the number of times I would sit down in a therapy session and start out by sharing the latest bit of mean petty crap someone had been saying about me and how hurt I was … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice, Personal Boundaries Primer | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Being more selective with your Time

I told one of my friends the other day that living in a small town was starting to make me feel mean. It’s a little disappointing to find out the darling of the local Chamber of Commerce is also the … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

I am who I am no matter who you are

I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Losing my Anonymity

REM lost their religion. William Shakespeare lost doubt. Edgar Allan Poe lost his mind. I’m over here wondering if I’ve lost my anonymity even though I’m not interested in figuring out where it went. I think it was the day … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

is that a Worm in my apple? Or am I becoming a rotten person?

It has been the year of exits for me and some of my *cough*friendly*cough* connections. Being the bitchy one that calls a person out for behaving like a jerk and then walking away from them because I just don’t want … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , | 5 Comments

The telephone Game

My friend and I were talking about how misunderstandings and untruths get spread around by folks that have way too much time on their hands. I had remembered having a conversation with someone who thought they were repeating something I … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

LOVE multiplies

  I was having one of those AHA! conversations with one of my closest friends when she made an observation that cleared up something I had wondered about for a long time. The conversation was about people who love selfishly. … Continue reading

Posted in All kinds of Advice | Tagged , , , , , | 3 Comments