Tag Archives: Self-esteem

Being more selective with your Time

I told one of my friends the other day that living in a small town was starting to make me feel mean. It’s a little disappointing to find out the darling of the local Chamber of Commerce is also the … Continue reading

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I am who I am no matter who you are

I had not noticed this was a huge part of who I am until I began creating personal boundaries for myself. I am who I am no matter who the other person is pretending to be and that’s not something … Continue reading

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do you know a Megalomaniac too?

What is Megalomania? ~from Wikipedia “Megalomania is a psycho-pathological condition characterized by delusional fantasies of wealth, power, or omnipotence. Megalomania is characterized by an inflated sense of self-esteem and overestimation by persons of their powers and beliefs.” Whichever way this … Continue reading

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self shame

I was having a conversation with my friend, Paula, telling her about an exchange I had with another woman. The woman started throwing these insults my way that I just could not understand why, or what she was trying to … Continue reading

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I don’t have cancer

Recently I went through a harrowing ordeal with my health. I started having some minor problems that were more annoying than painful. These grew to be more than a nuisance, so I went to my physician and she ran a … Continue reading

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That shoe, on my other foot

If I get warned that someone has harmed my friends, I’ll be on my guard and probably won’t engage the creep on any level. I’m a firm believer that if someone tells me, “Hey, that guy is a murderer and … Continue reading

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how I found the Pattern

When I started creating personal boundaries for myself, I had no idea what I was doing and it made me uncomfortable to think I would ever enforce them. But I stuck with it. Even when it made me grit my … Continue reading

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