Tag Archives: Shame

Of course I’m the problem!

In an effort to belittle me someone said to me one day, “Your in-laws hate you and you speak to only a handful of your own family members. Haven’t you considered that you’re the common denominator here and that the problem … Continue reading

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KaPow! KaBoom! Kablooey!

There are days I grow weary of the shaming and the gossip. When mean folks gossip it’s their way of using shame to try to control you. That’s what gossip is. It’s a method of controlling the way other people … Continue reading

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You’ve changed, and I don’t like it

by Madeline Laughs   One of the many trials you’ll experience when you start making personal boundaries is the guilt. A big surprise they don’t tell you about when making personal boundaries are the people you’ll end up dealing with … Continue reading

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When I was doing research for one of my posts about narcissism I came across an interesting article about where narcissism develops and some reasons why it happens. You see, people are not born to be narcissistic. Narcissism is a … Continue reading

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it’s nobody’s fault, but Mine

I see many posts online about people struggling with weight issues and my heart goes out to them. I wish for each of them an easy road of losing whatever holds them back from losing weight, so that they can … Continue reading

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