Tag Archives: thoughts

We all have better things to talk about

  I cannot tell you the number of times I would sit down in a therapy session and start out by sharing the latest bit of mean petty crap someone had been saying about me and how hurt I was … Continue reading

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Maslov’s Pyramid is Rubbish

Many years ago, before I was married, one of my husband’s friends used Maslov’s hierarchy of needs to convince him that it was okay to cheat on his then-girlfriend, which was me. I thought this was certainly a unique argument, … Continue reading

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where do they live?

Where do I go to find those really deep thoughts? Where are they tucked within my own brain, within my heart? How painful, or sometimes excruciatingly euphoric, is it to dig down inside and unearth some profound thought that begs … Continue reading

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banana peel

I have this one friend that is so totally zen that you could never imagine her having a single stressful moment for her entire life. In fact, anytime I have seen her cry about something all I could do was … Continue reading

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Words with a Friend

One of my friends shared this picture with me of a field in Mexico where Americans send their old tires to die. It’s a gruesome photograph and it brought to mind all kinds of feelings and thoughts about the amount … Continue reading

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New here in 2015!! Stay tuned!

I have decided to do something a little different with my writing this year. In addition to posting on an irregular basis, Hahahahahaha!!!, I will be posting an article each week talking about something everyone might do to improve their … Continue reading

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SATC Wisdom

One day a few years ago I had a thought about recent disconnections and decided to do some internal inventory. I tend to speak my mind and confront duplicity head-on. How many people have I pissed off in the past … Continue reading

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