Tag Archives: toxic people

We all have better things to talk about

  I cannot tell you the number of times I would sit down in a therapy session and start out by sharing the latest bit of mean petty crap someone had been saying about me and how hurt I was … Continue reading

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Of course I’m the problem!

In an effort to belittle me someone said to me one day, “Your in-laws hate you and you speak to only a handful of your own family members. Haven’t you considered that you’re the common denominator here and that the problem … Continue reading

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I put on their Shoes and found Understanding

There’s an old saying about walking a mile in their shoes before you judge someone. It would be awesome-great if people actually had to do this, but they don’t and most of them don’t have what it takes in their … Continue reading

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ghosting…Boo!

I have written many articles in the past about the benefits of quietly exiting a relationship that has become toxic due to the discovery personality disorders and abusive behaviors. Recently I saw a new term for this exit called ghosting. I … Continue reading

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A horse’s ass

“If one person calls you a horse’s ass, be curious. If three people … be reflective. After five people … buy a saddle.” ~Anonymous There are folks in this world that seem to think that just because a little time … Continue reading

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how I found the Pattern

When I started creating personal boundaries for myself, I had no idea what I was doing and it made me uncomfortable to think I would ever enforce them. But I stuck with it. Even when it made me grit my … Continue reading

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Prince Ea says “Take out the trash!”

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